Extremely uncomfortable experience. We went there to attend the theme parties and not be judged. Unfortunately, we experienced a lot of judgement. Even fully clothed at the bar where no minors are allowed, we were told that we should dance with about a foot of distance between us, not to kiss each other, and, even if we dance away from each other or anyone else, to make sure we don't dance "provocatively" such as move our hips or body roll. And that we were lucky to be able to even hold hands in public because that didn't use to be allowed.
They got their hands slapped by the IRS for abusing their non-profit status, so several people kept pressuring us to become members or else we wouldn't be welcome there. We had already applied when someone on the membership committee got in my face. And, shockingly, after I made the office aware of the incident, the committee denied our membership.
Just my opinion, but that is a terrible way of doing business.
If you are seeking a place to feel welcome, perhaps another choice would be in order.